The truth is everyone in life is going to hurt you… at least the ones you’ll ever let get close to your heart. Even family. You just have to find the ones worth suffering for.
We may have many people in our life, some who appear briefly, some who come to us in the most unexpected of ways. Some we deem to be close, some who have been around for the longest of times and even yes, some whom we fall head over heels with. But no matter the circumstance, if your relationship has never gone through dark times, it has never gone through a trial of fire. And though it may seem like a nice place to be for now, you’ll never know if it’ll hold out in one of life’s storms that decides to come by. Remember, a boat is never truly deemed seaworthy unless it has survived the wildest of storms, not by its age or how pretty it looks to you or others on the out. The sturdiest of relationships are never the ones that are the most smooth sailing.
When we take action and decide on our next course in life, we humans always tend to look back and focus on the negative memories not the positive ones. That’s why the vast majority of us get trapped in all kinds of cycles - emotional, mental, physical and spiritual. Sure it’s never easy but then again in our quietest moments, most never can honestly claim to be successful in love and life, right? We have to break out of the chains, we have to steer a direction to head into, you don’t just expect everything to work out fine by flowing along. Ain’t the best way out of any storm to grit your teeth and sail through it? Fight all instinct to give up!
Nothing comes perfect in this life. If you expect the right one to be someone who will give you a perfect record of the best time throughout, then you’ll always be disappointed. But it’s simple, just never give up on the one who never gave up on you! The one who was there when everyone left.
Remember, Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s also an action to commit. So don’t you ever wait til you are left an old man filled with regret, that you realised you only had one life to live aye